>Also, just a bit of friendly Internet advice, this isn't the best way to interface with people:
Well I'm getting massive vote downs and the original poster literally called what I'm stating as initializing stupid blame games to win the stupid prize. Kind of rude and insulting. I think it's reasonable to say that my reaction is reasonable given the attack.
It's not exactly the real world on HN either as people are harsher than normal, ruder and less receptive of differing opinions.
I would say that Giving people a piece of "friendly advice on interfacing with people" won't exactly win you any friends either. If you teach people things using that methodology you will get a retaliatory response whether it's on the internet or the real world as the tone is a bit domineering and elitist.
>Blame is for incidents. Discipline is for patterns.
This doesn't make sense to me. I can't blame people for patterns? I can't discipline people for incidents?
The sort of short and terse elegant expressiveness of the phrase ultimately hides a statement that makes no logical sense. Typically someone is blamed first before he is disciplined. Both go hand in hand.
Either way, you're probably just trying to say that let the team get blamed but if you see patterns then blame the individual. Not as elegant but no linguistic tricks that decorate ultimately illogical statements to appear as philosophies of life.