Signal exposes the user's phone number, better alternative is to use burner phones or Telegram.
That is, it is not end-to-end-encrypted (E2EE) — which is the whole point of apps like this.
Matrix is 100% open source, has a larger community maintaining it and is federated.
If you're worried about backdoors then you should have more eyes on the code.
You can easily find others by searching. You can also use pre-paid credit cards if you must pay.