I separate my identity from my job, and my "work product" from my personal projects. If I get paid to make something for somebody else, it belongs to the person or organization who paid for it, and they can do what they want with it--including burning it down and throwing it away. I already have their money; what they do with their property is none of my business. As long as I know that I did a good job on what was asked of me, that's all that matters--I can be satisfied with my work.
Now, if they tried to tell me what to do with my own personal projects, we'd have problems!