So when I got an iPad, I was especially mystified at why anyone should complain about this garbage being missing.
edit: Useful links.
Go grab ClickToFlash (Safari, OS X):
Or the Safari extension for Mac or Windows:
http://hoyois.github.com/safariextensions/clicktoflash/
Or the Firefox equivalent:
The new, Safari-extensionized version that is mentioned second is much better and updated frequently. (this link: http://hoyois.github.com/safariextensions/clicktoflash/)
(mathematical stickler: seeing as ClickToFlash is free, it's price/performance ratio is always zero)
https://chrome.google.com/extensions/detail/mfidmkgnfgnkihnj...
Still, per-site whitelisting is nice.
It isn't the easiest or most intuitive way, but so far worked well enough to me.
I did it fairly early getting my android, it makes a big difference