I realise that this is intended for humour, but more seriously, I have experienced much better anger reduction when actually chatting amiably with someone and making a friendly recommendation. ``This sucks'' just passes on the negativity to others.
I realise that this is intended for humour, but more seriously, I have experienced much better anger reduction when actually chatting amiably with someone and making a friendly recommendation. ``This sucks'' just passes on the negativity to others.
Great for you, but not everyone is you; some people need to vent to feel better.
In any case, if somebody feels the need to vent, I hope they don't do it where I end up reading them. ^^
BTW, I'm not a venter, and I wasn't talking about me when I said some people.
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The conclusion seems to be a resounding no. Venting anger does not help, neither verbally nor physically.