It makes me genuinely really angry that this isn't the case, it has me questioning why I even bother to interact with the development ecosystem when it seems like 90% of the stuff out there is this sort of closed-off 'got mine' fuck-the-environment style thinking.

Maybe it's just too much time on HN?

Like, how many times does one have to push against the bullshit bootlicker arguments before one just gives up?