If you release the accelerator, does it decouple the engine from the wheels?
As the other person mentioned, the quote you are citing means that you shouldn't spin the wheels of an automatic while the engine is not spinning. The input shaft of an automatic transmission typically drives the transmission's lubrication pump. If you spin the output shaft of a transmission of this design without spinning the input shaft, you are rotating the mechanism without lubrication.
On the topic of living near a main road: I suggest you to move away from it as fast as possible. If I could change one thing in my past, it would be that I was living near a main road as well. It was far the worst decision of my life :(