“Usually fast enough” are three words that guarantee failure in a live show/MIDI environment, which is a large use case of VST and its peers beyond production. By extension, “usually fast enough” further guarantees nobody will ever use your software. That’s noticeable right away.
The question isn’t about compsci real-time theorycrafting, it’s “here’s a buffer of samples, if you don’t give it back in a dozen milliseconds the entire show collapses.” That’s pretty clearly meant by “real time“ contextually.