If they aren't 100% set in their ways, I do make them aware that things will move at about half the speed with TF, so they'll effectively be paying twice as much. If they are set in their ways, I do not mention it, since I'm not going to change their mind anyway.
That said PyTorch 1.5.0 is just broken pretty much - tensor permute (which in computer vision you end up doing for every input tensor) is 10x slower than it used to be. There's an issue in GitHub already.
I'm beginning to worry about PyTorch.
I'm working with TF and Pytorch as well, but so far for the later I have found the project to be reasonably reliable (though I did find Chainer considerably more polished). Can you share more about what worries you with Pytorch?
The fact that such obvious, severe bugs make it through the release process likely means that there isn't really much of a release process. And what's in place doesn't even test the release on totally bread-and-butter models like resnet50.
For reference, one of the core devs added more details based on where we are with our investigation: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/37142#issuecomment...