Do I love Elm? Yes, definitely. It's such a well-designed language. Lots of thought went into it. It's very focused and has great (albeit sometimes non-obvious) solutions for almost everything.
However, the leadership style is also what keeps me from recommending Elm to anyone wanting to create a project that cannot be simply rewritten in case Elm does a change that doesn't work for you. I wouldn't use Elm at work, since it would be a very high-risk situation. (In fact, I was faced with that decision and decided against Elm.) If you face a blocker, you're screwed.
A version of Elm that is being developed in the open, where people are allowed to make suggestions, where all feedback is considered valuable, where people can experiment and explore the design space without artificial limits? Yep, I would love such a thing, and I'd happily contribute.
Until that happens, I'll happily use Elm for small, personal low-risk projects. I do hope that the situation will improve once the "big rewrite" with a WASM backend is done.