> "I believe I was expected to perform as a leader on top of solving problems, writing applications and my lack of leadership skills made me not worth my paycheck. In retrospect, higher ups did mention in passing about an year ago about how I need to speak up in meetings etc."
I think this needs to be resolved across industry. The so-called "leadership" should learn that not all fingers are equal but every finger has use and value. Similary not every employee can be a leader and extrovert. It is the leadership's responsibility to identify and make use of "silent souls" on a team to greater effect. In my career I have seen people who are introverts to be very capable when given a right environment; in fact they exceed others on the team. Forcing people to be what they are not is not a good leadership practice.