To be fair it does perform better than everything else, which is why people are so forgiving of it, but it still doesn't excuse their ineptitude on privacy and security.
Which is the reason zoom gets used so much.
Last time I used meet it tended to turn my laptop into a fireball, even with just one or two other participants.
I tried Hangouts recently and the quality was terrible compared to Zoom. Discord was far better than Zoom though.