Which is the reason zoom gets used so much.
Last time I used meet it tended to turn my laptop into a fireball, even with just one or two other participants.
I tried Hangouts recently and the quality was terrible compared to Zoom. Discord was far better than Zoom though.
The reason? "It just works."
It's clear their singular focus on making it "just work" for even the least tech-savvy users has led them to prioritise user experience over security/privacy. I imagine a rebalancing is coming.
Very long story, but long story short, I needed the tool urgently (this was pre-Ghidra), like hours & days mattered. I am a small company, they were "skeptical" of me and my intentions, they demanded all sorts of paperwork and IDs, etc. It was seriously as though it was a dark comedy nightmare.
Everything you wrote is true. So many people fellate IDA given the chance; I don't know what they're smoking. The product is clunky and ugly (but it mostly works), but as you said, it's got very little competition. I and a few of my colleagues (and many here on HN) could probably do a better job, but I don't want to live in that world.
Man, I think I got pretty far afield there, but your comment resonated with me. Thank you.