You are ignoring the fact that cars have to navigate what is basically a set a of 1 dimensional corridors on a 2 dimensional plane. Airplanes don't have these limitations and can fly point to point at their choice of altitude.
Currently most of the congestion in aviation is around airports which are necessarily optimized for large jets. With a small airplane, you can fly to a much larger variety of airports, around ~50K world wide and it's relatively straightforward to build even more of them as needed.
Noise is a function of propeller size, rotation speed, and engine noise. Simply put, lots of small propellers rotating at faster speeds driven by electrical engines are a lot less noisy than larger props driven by combustion engines. The physics around this are complex and involve things like the speed of sound of the tips of the propeller (you break that limit at lower rpm for larger props), the mass and thickness of the propeller, vortices, etc. Basically, all of that improves with smaller props.
Compared to a loud helicopter, an electrical plane at the same altitude could be a lot less noisy to the point where in a busy city you'd hear one but not the other above the ambient noise.