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It might be a nod towards the terminology that Erlang/OTP uses, i.e. "gen_server". Discord is built on Elixir IIRC.

And I think I read that each ‘server’ gen_server lives on one actual server.

No, you can run thousands of gen_servers in one VM instance.

This is like calling unix processes that listen on ports "servers", which is pretty common.