I suppose you think we should not defend ourselves?
Of course you can argue we shouldn't be involved in the Middle East, and there are some reasons to think we shouldn't be, but we can agree on that point and still believe the US should have the world's dominant military.
> but we can agree [that] the US should have the world's dominant military.
Who is "we"? It's not me.
Not that I disagree with the sentiment, but if you're (successfully) occupying a nation, it is by definition not sovereign anymore.