I don't want to be defensive but this is completely off base, and very disheartening to see you post. Allowing users to write safe self-referential code was never a design goal of Pin - only to make it safe to manipulate self-referential objects generated by the compiler, which it has succeeded at. The incredibly overblown soundness hole had far more to do with the quirks of #[fundamental] than Pin (and the soundness hole is being resolved without changing the Pin APIs at all or breaking any user code).

The guarantees of Pin are now even being used beyond self-referential types but also for intrusive data structures in tokio's concurrency primitives. Pin is not for everyday users, but it is one of the greatest success stories of Rust's unsafe system. That you would call it a mess to a forum of non-users is quite disspiriting.