I have heard this argument numerous times, and I'm sick of hearing it over and over again.
Yes, real world economy is (almost) practically a zero-sum game.
Look at GDP growth rate. A rate of 4-6% of a developed country, with population growth of 1-3% is considered a success (after accounting for inflation). Don't tell me tens of millions of individuals can get out of low-income situation, and billionaires can still keep getting rich, with a measley overall growth of 4-6%. The situation is even worse when every few years, it dips to 2%, 0%, or even goes negative.
With a total best-case growth of 4-6%, in a population growing 1-3%, you have to make many folks worse off in order to get ahead.