I wish that were true. In practice, server admins are more than happy to block federation with entire other domains (and all associated users, hundreds or thousands at a time) based on little more than gossip and rumor.
Imagine if email services worked this way! “subscriber@otherhost is rumored to be slightly politically oriented in a way we don’t like, so we as admins have prevented everyone@thishost from mailing everyone@otherhost, and vice versa”.
https://github.com/tootsuite/mastodon/issues/12600
“the internet treats censorship like damage and something something”
I’m glad that, in practice, you can still email people who are destination-server-adjacent to users your local mailserver admin hates. (Of course, mailservers can configure to drop mail from specified MXes too—but they don’t. Usually they get spam-foldered.)
PS: I’m on the fediverse at @sneak@sneak.berlin and would love more people to follow.