This is the typical experience for the ivy league types common on HN though.
They had to beat their way into the 95% of their zone school, then 95% of their magnet high school, then 95% of their elite college's graduating class, then 95% of their big N corporate ladder, etc.
Despite the filtering at every step of the way, the curve is always bellshaped! And it feels like shit if you find yourself on the left side of that curve among your peers.
But I guess it's healthier to think along the lines of: "What do you call a medical student who finished last in their class? Doctor."