As far as I understand it, the fundamental reason airfoils in boats and places work the way they do requires viscosity. Without that, the math falls apart and the ship doesn't move. It is not enough to treat air as a bunch of tiny billiard balls bouncing off the bottom of the wing (the Newton's third law argument). Likewise, you can't pretend the air above and below the wing are each confined to their own perfectly frictionless tubes with different velocities (the Bernoulli argument), since the air moving over the wing is part of a continuous whole extending out arbitrarily far.
In order to explain how fabric-thin sails are able to generate lift, how planes with curved wings can fly upside down, and how the ground effect comes into play, you have to treat the surrounding fluid as a continuous medium with viscosity. That's how the math works. Unfortunately, we don't seem to have a good intuition for how that feels so it's hard to treat that as a satisfactory explanation.