https://frayedlightningcables.tumblr.com/
Anecdotally, my friends' cables always seem to be frayed. I personally have not owned an apple phone in many years, but I recently bought an apple brand usb-c to 3.5mm adapter at an airport because that's all they had and I forgot mine at home... It stopped working after about a month of very gentle use. It's in perfect physical condition.
The point is, if you have to keep replacing them, it's not a reduction in e-waste and runs counter to the spirit of the ruling.