know SQL is kind of hard to describe. I also have business people that know SQL, yet don't use (or request, if they knew there are not) indexes. So we get this amalgamation of monstrous subqueries all hitting the same unoptimized fields, of course, blocking the database.
I created a mini-training for the onboarding process, so they could at least look for things without killing all our read replicas. But that’s just one step; some people are just not good at it.
Fear... fear is having everyone blocked because one person is killing all the replicas for them to work on.