The government never retires, and never has to pay off its debts. That gives it a lot of leverage, but it also obligates new citizens to a share of the debt as soon as they're born. Your parents can't pass their mortgage debt to you, but they do pass on their share of money that the government has borrowed.
So the government can safely borrow money, but at some point it will accumulate so much debt that people begin to doubt its ability to pay it back. Whoever is left holding the bag at that point will be in very deep trouble.
I don't know what point that is. Interest rates are still low, so the answer appears to be "not today" (and "not imminently"). But the article points out that the low interest rates may be something of a false indicator.
So as you say, responsible debt is good. But decreasing revenue via tax cuts, and increasing debt accumulation, at a time when the economy appears to be booming doesn't appear to be responsible. It reduces the ability to borrow in the future, at precisely the time you could be increasing that ability by paying down old debts. Especially if you're then covering it up by borrowing in a way that's hard for people to see.
Currency issuers can always pay any debt denominated in the currency that they issue. It is literally impossible for a currency issuer to be forced to default.
"But decreasing revenue via tax cuts, and increasing debt accumulation, at a time when the economy appears to be booming doesn't appear to be responsible."
That's a sane position, but the argument against a Federal Balanced Budget Amendment comes from the opposite case. You want the capability to deficit spend during recessions. The Federal Balanced Budget Amendment forces you to make the wrong decision of cutting spending during recessions, driving the nation deeper into recession.
When factories are idle and unemployment is high, it is vicious to claim that the best policy is to choose to throw more people out of work. Federal spending should be explicitly countercyclical.