A physiotherapist once told me in direct words that (in his opinion) flexibility without strength is useless. He'd treated some people that were into Yoga and similar activities, and their flexibility caused injuries doing normal activities, I assume because things were just moving around too much without proper internal support.
I've personally found muscle exhaustion to be the best cure for my back pain. I don't know why, but I figure a) exhaustion and soreness signals being stronger than the pain, and/or b) pain being caused by muscle tension/grabbing and exhaustion removes strength from this.