Thanks for posting this. It takes a bit of courage to write what you have. The hardest thing (for me) is to detach mentally/emotionally from the job when you're not there. You've just spent all day in an office, and it's difficult to be truly present when you get home. All I can say is that I struggle with similar issues, and I'm trying to work on setting more firm boundaries between me and my job. I wish you and your family the best of luck (and strength) in the coming months.