What about say configuring my own OpenBSD server to act as a router? I am out of my intellectual depth here but I feel like that would be more secure than Linux in general if we are going for max security.
As governments and private equity groups continue to buy out whatever hosting provider, VPN, Registrar, etc they can find...I feel like Open Source is a pretty soft target in the grand scheme of things. I am trying to become somewhat ruthless in analyzing my dependencies when it comes to software.
NOTE: another commenter mentioned a TP-Link product. Those devices are absolutely insecure to the core of their firmware for the time being. 7 days ago I discovered their completely open production Elasticsearch API server for their entire camera and IOT platform in the United States. It has now been remediated but that event puts under suspicion anything else the company deals with via the TP-Link brand out of Shenzhen.