Linode is a good example of how we're different. As per my knowledge, you can have your own kernel, that's true, but you need to make a special request to support & then wait for them to modify your server. It's not included out of the box.
We include this out of the box on every server. I know that prgmr does the same; however, they're the exception in the industry.
prgmr is the exception in many ways. Our hope is to provide the same kind of service for grown-ups while also providing a robust set of features that help make management easy and doing it for a good price. They have a very focused target market, but they don't appeal to all VPS customers (otherwise, everyone would already be a prgrmr customer).
Thanks for your feedback about the website! Very much appreciated.