Thank you for your feedback.
To answer your remarks:
1. We added a copy of the email we are sending in the frontpage (click on "what will they receive?") so you can see by yourself that it is a cute little mail. We are monitoring strongly the pourcentages of the crushes and we are testing some variations to know what perform best. You are right we need to communicate trust and we work toward that.
Although if she delete the email there is no arm for you as your anonymity is still preserved.
2. People are generally not that bad, I cant assure you that it won't happened. But SecretPoke only offer 3 free crushes so it should limit the secret poking ring .
I hope you will be served and that it will be with a person for whom you have a crush ;) Give it a try ... Life is full of good surprises :)