It's okay to ask 'dumb' questions. People that get upset about them are jerks.
It's okay to ask 'dumb' questions. People that get upset about them are jerks.
Continuing to expect spoon feeding quickly gets tiresome, but deciding just based on a sentence or two that a question is low effort or not is usually not the way to go.
A dumb question might be something like "I can't log into my server with `ssh server.com`. It keeps rejecting my password when it asks for `user@server.com's password`. What's going on?" The user might not know to explicitly add `admin@` on the command line.
A lazy question is "My server that I bought doesn't let me log in!" Come on, you need to address 1) what result you expect, 2) the exact steps you take, 3) the result you obtain instead, and 4) any other details a non-omniscient being might need to answer your question.
The second question is more because of a misunderstanding about the particular platform. These type of lead-in questions are common in tech support and even many forums where they expect someone will get back to them with more specific questions (they may not have an idea what sort of information will be relevant). A simple comment clarifying this will not only prevent confusion due to arbitrarily closing the question but will help them make a better question.
Like maybe they don't realize there are different ways of interacting with servers. I wouldn't expend a great deal of effort helping someone asking a question like that, but I hope I wouldn't make a bunch of a priori assumptions about why they were asking that question instead of another one.
If I asked a question about something I have no idea about, such as training a sheepdog, I'd still be able to put forth effort into describing the steps I take to someone, so they know what I tried to do. The question "The dog isn't learning this command!" isn't bad because of my lack of sheepdog knowledge, it's bad because it omits tons of important information about my situation. Therefore it's a lazy question.
It is funny that you can also learn things like that without questions, but how could it be any other way? We are all born dumb!