It hasn't been about nations for a long time, but the rich and powerful people who influence them. Many of them aren't even elected officials.
See Trump and Russia, Saudi Arabia and Khashoggi, the American citizens beaten up by Erdogan's bodyguards on American soil, the UAE and Sheikha Latifa, American corporations kowtowing to China, the US ambassador's wife who got away with murdering a UK teen, Jeffrey Epstein and his private island of underage prostitution for the cream of society's crop, and the many other cases where the personal whims of the elite few override sovereign laws.
Those people literally have access to everything that human civilization has to offer, and they're not going to ruin their playground.