What we need is a superhero who's just a guy with a crappy office job who wants to make the world a better place, and his only tools are his sense of justice and a costume he bought at a garage sale. Someone so utterly unremarkable that they just use their regular name as their superhero name.
That's right, I'm saying we need an Arthur movie.
...more realistically, I think we could use more stories about regular people who made a difference just by be being good people.
TNG-era Star Trek had a lot of that. Sure, the protagonists were not regular people, but they also didn't have superpowers. Their specialness served primarily to ensure they had lots of problems thrown at them, problems they very often solved through the strength of their character (and the character of the organization backing them), instead of trickery or violence. I miss that in today's entertainment.
We had that comic book and TV show decades ago, except he was a homeless guy and it was called The Maxx. People keep acting like this kind of storytelling is new or doesn't exist, but we've always had it. The people asking for it just have a really narrow perspective.
Plenty of those exist, but they scratch a different itch. People can enjoy both.
You should probably check out "Dark Waters"
So... almost every single super hero then? Have you even watched any of these movies?
CA Civil War is all about authoritarianism and how much freedom we should trade for safety. Dr Strange grapples with a death he caused in self defense and uses his mind to save the day. Captain America represents the pinnacle of self sacrifice, and Iron Man's entire journey is about him eschewing his old ways and becoming selfless. Beyond this, they've done a good job of making less one dimensional villians lately.
And yes, there are fights and super powers. Lots of them. People like action and mysticism, and they always will. That doesn't make them dumb, get over it.
There was no mention of realism in your comment. You argued that we should be emphasizing other traits in these movies, and I argue that we already are.