We felt that we could tell the difference in reflection between moissanite and diamond. However we did go with a lab grown diamond which is 30%-60% of the price and ethically produced.
Of course maybe there is a noticable difference but often people see/taste/hear/smell/feel something that's not there if they already know which is A and which is B.
I don't think any of this stuff really matters, btw, just get what looks good to you.