> At this point it takes the same amount of energy (embodied energy, called grey energy in Germany) to erect a Passivhaus as it will need operating over the next 50 years.
That doesn't mean much since it takes less and less energy to 'operate' the house. For energy-positive housing it by definition takes more energy to build the house than to run it for a single day since the house is a net energy producer. Leave that fact out and use it as a headline and you can guess the reactions.
What is important is the trade-off between effort spent in creating energy-efficient infrastructure - whether it be housing or industry or roads or whatever - versus the expected returns, the projected lifetime, the means to distribute energy and more. Having an energy-positive suburb won't gain much if there are no means to transport the energy to the city centre or industry where it is needed. Insulating against -20° winter temperatures does not make sense on the Canary islands (and no, insulation is not the same as thermal buffering which can be used to lower inside temperatures during hot days, viz. adobe constructions).