Ok, I think I need an "out of the loop" explanation. I've spent the last 10-15min reading this page and linked pages and I'm still hopelessly confused.

All I know is it has something to do with Monica questioning some new CoC changes (pronoun-related) and then being fired for "violating" the CoC before it was even ratified.

It's very unclear to me what everyone's positions on this issue were as it seems that Monica was asking about using gender neutral pronouns instead of what people preferred to be called by and that was an issue for SE? Like I said, I'm very confused.

I look forward to someone explaining what is going on because I can't make heads or tails of it.