You know, I seriously, seriously think that transhumanists have an easier time dealing with death. We're not all conflicted about death. We have no concept that we ought to be bottling up the anger. We don't think we ought to be "coming to terms" with death. Making peace with death is not a goal. Death is horrible and we have to stop it.
There, that's it, you're done. That's the resolution.
http://yudkowsky.net/yehuda.html
(my little brother, he was 19)