The incentive in the private sector is to maximize profit, which means minimizing costs.
> But if you have nation-state levels of funding, you certainly can buy a system that would take serious talent and funding to break.
You might be able to build such a system, or you can buy a system that just passes all acceptance tests, which is where the incentive is (since this minimizes costs). Given that testing a cryptosystem for correctness is just about impossible, what do you suppose happens?
The best assurance that I get is when I'm told which standard implementation a product uses. If a private entity without a reputation in cryptography told you that they rolled their own, would you trust them? How many crytographers would you trust? I know whom I would, and I don't even need a full hand to count them.
It's a bit more complicated than that. Yes, >0 experts have reviewed OpenSSL code. But <1 experts have reviewed all of the OpenSSL code. Did the bits which matter to you get reviewed? Who knows...