It is overwhelmingly male. There is plenty of evidence that women would like to participate more but are put off by some of what goes on here.
Yes, I think your attitude is a direct contributor to some of your problems.
Yes, this is typical. And it's maddening.
I made the leader board. That accomplishment doesn't get credited to me. But my failure to achieve my goals gets blamed on me, conveniently hand-waving away all evidence that sexism is a real problem.
Let me reiterate my original point and then try to walk away from this ridiculous debacle:
Men don't have to treat women like property. All they have to do is silently exclude them professionally, thereby making sure women have little hope of a comfortable life without marrying a man with a good income.
If men would like to stop being targeted by gold diggers and start finding lovers who want them for reasons other than their money, they should start making more of an effort to find ways to bring those barriers down.
When women can make their own money and can have sex to meet their own sexual needs, we might see frivolous accusations of rape to preserve female pretense of chastity and virtue go way down.