I see I got a few upvotes, so this must resonate here - thanks, wanted to back this up with specific details:
The chipset was the Broadwell EP. VCCSA ran at ~1.33, when the maximum should have been 1.25. Also VCCIO was 1.25, when it'd run happily at 1.096v.
Point taken was to go through every single voltage setting and research safe ranges, not trust auto for _anything_. There were changes in the CPU memory controllers around this time, and that's what caused the CPU to die when unsafe voltages were applied; Asus' XMP settings for my 4x8=32GB 3200 Trident Z DDR4s (17-18-18-36) turned them to mush.
I don't have a degree in electrical engineering; it seems like Asus wanted you to have one.
Looking back I'm discovering more details... and another guy who experienced essentially the same, with others backing up the instability of the platform:
https://forums.anandtech.com/threads/my-6850x-just-died-just...
Whilst I want to move over to AMD, I'd like my current 6850k to last longer as my son's computer. It seems like I won the silicon lottery with my old 2600k that he's currently using though; running fixed 4.4ghz which is a very nice upgrade from the stock 3.4ghz.
The original article in this thread is music to my ears - for AM4, just add a great cooler and away we go. It's tempting to upgrade both computers at the same time.. which kind of wrecks my hand me down thing, but I'm sure the 6850k got degraded by 3 weeks on the bad settings as I've had lots of issues with it (unlike the 2600k).
(Final edit: Thus my disdain for Asus' inability to back up BIOS settings on this board when performing BIOS updates like I should now to get my overclock back, unlike others I've had; if I miss even a single one of the voltage settings, I can expect it to fry the CPU - unless they actually fixed their sh*t in one of the BIOS updates).