Bars and pubs are not the same. Bars just serve alcohol, but pubs are public living rooms and centres of communal life. A pub is where life's milestones are celebrated, the departed are grieved, friendships are cemented, matches are made, and revolutions are plotted.
And some of us prefer the pleasures and pangs of gradual self-destruction to the quasi-religious cult of self-improvement.
Some of us truly our 'best selves' after a few pints of something dark and bitter.
I for one never trust anyone who doesn't drink.
Cheers!