I think what we are seeing is the implementation of authoritarian governments, something that has been on the increase nearly everywhere, in the last 20 years.
People have in the developed world had it, too good for too long. Complacency and populism is what led to this.
We voted in "strong leaders" and this is what we're gonna get, strong policies that might not really be all that smart.
What these policies forget is a lot of general citizens don't have much choice over the regime that leads them. They are just often people doing their thing.
Free software is actually something which brings us together, as it's about what we do and have in common, rather than race, religion or politics. I think that's why it feels so awful.