Still, I disagree. Even a large order won't "move" the market by itself (unless you're the Fed). At best, it might trigger a flash crash (we've seen a few of these in the past few years), where liquidity temporarily dries up (HFT market makers remove their passive orders, until they figure out what the hell is going on, precisely because they already predict cases like this) but comes back as soon as human traders figure out that nothing is going on (and the price has no reason to move).
More likely, a large order might blow through a few layers of the order book, which is good for market makers - instead of selling it at $100.01 (which is the "best", i.e. "lowest" price), you're selling it at $100.02 (i.e. you're making more money than your fellow market makers). In general, if you're an "institutional" (or otherwise big & slow) trader trading "large" orders (relative to the standard market volume), you're trying hard to disguise your intents. If HFTs know that you will buy the next 100 shares, they'll just sell it to you for $100.09 or more!