Seeing as the tidyverse is pretty much your invention, its well within your purvue to define what is in and what is out. I do think, respectfully, that both the op and the general sentiment article have the right of it.

Data.table and data.table-esque notation represent such an improvement of tibble/dplyr, that within my company, we're making a concerted effort to purge all tidyverse packages from general use (less ggplot). When new developers come on, if they are coming from tidyverse, their first task will be something involving pipes and data.table. Tidyverse was fine in school. It doesn't pass muster in production, at least not in our work.

Data.table syntax is simpler, easier to read, easier to teach, and orders of magnitude faster. It plays nicer with other packages than the tidyverse (if it fits into a DF, it almost always fits into a DT, and i've never met a tibble that I didn't wish was a data.table), and since almost all of our datasets are 10's to 1000's of millions of lines long, the decision was really made for us.