Sadly, he would rather play games than work on your common future. This is like swimming with a 150 pound toad on your back who also eats your food, a good job if you can get it... Analyze this as if you were speaking with a friend who had this exact problem - what would you tell him to do? From another point of view. you are creating a fail mode system for him to operate in. He has no success mode, apart from that of a tapeworm, just keep on suckin' on little bro, when he is sucked dry, find another host.