For me it’s not about style but practicality. Headphones are huge. AirPods are tiny. Rubber ear buds make weird squelching sounds when I walk. Apple earbuds are the only thing that works for me.
Have you tried Comply tips? https://www.complyfoam.com/ (or any foam tip really) They're at practically every audio store, pretty easy and cheap to try. Personally I love them, and can't stand rubber tips.