Pairing is hard. It is the part of our process that I like the less.
We try to make it easier and fairer with a rule like " if candidate reaches this step = automatic pass" (and the step in question is not that far in the interview).
But there are still many person to person differences and I often have dilemmas.
It is very hard to differentiate between giving a pointer and handholding the candidate.
So sometimes I ask myself if I gave too much or too little help, since there are cases where the candidate would have gone far enough with just a little bit more push and others where I feel that I helped them too much. On a 45 minutes exercise, if you help somebody not getting stuck for 10 minutes, it can make a difference.
Another part that make me uneasy is wondering if accents or culture differences can make me act differently.
Like different micro expressions or attitudes from what I would expect, can these influence me enough to go from pass to no pass more easily for some ethnical/cultural groups ?
All in all it is a perilous exercise.