Here is what he IRS has determined the cost of driving is. I would imagine the costs in CA are greater due to gasoline prices, traffic, and general cost of living.
https://www.irs.gov/newsroom/irs-issues-standard-mileage-rat...
54.5 cents per mile The Internal Revenue Service (IRS) has issued the 2018 optional standard mileage rates and beginning on January 1, 2018, the standard mileage rates for the use of a car, van, pickup or panel truck will be: 54.5 cents per mile for business miles driven (up from 53.5 cents in 2017)Dec 14, 2017
Includes gas, oil, repairs, tires, insurance, registration fees, licenses, and depreciation (or lease payments) attributable to the portion of the total miles driven that are business miles.
"Attributable to the portion" sounds like you divide it by total miles, which is going to give you a number that's bigger than marginal cost, and possibly a lot bigger. For some cars, doubling the miles might only increase non-fuel costs 20%.
Mind you, I drive a lot of easy 55mph, in central Texas.
You're right though, all cars should have it. Cars idleing for hours puts wear-and-tear on the engine that isn't evident by the odometer.
You choose where you live. You choose what job you take. You choose to have children. Etc.
These externalities are never accounted for, and which lead our society to behave in suboptimal ways. Not to mention allowing all these on demand delivery and ride hailing tech companies to buy drivers at very low cost.
I'm going to guess that Cali's 1-minute cost is more around $1.
These are internalized to the cost of fuel at the pump. There's no need or benefit to think about them as a consumer.
That’s about the only choice I get to make, though, short of buying a Tesla.