I'm also one of those oldfarts that insists on hosting my private emails for me and a few friends. I've owned the ip since early 2000's and have had zero "spam"/blacklist incidents. One trend I've been noticing is that Microsoft/Outlook have regularly started to block me. I have to contact their abuse which takes a day or so to get unblocked. To date, I've done so >10 times:
hotmail-com.olc.protection.outlook.com[104.47.1.33] said: 550 5.7.1
Unfortunately, messages from [<redacted>] weren't sent. Please contact
your Internet service provider since part of their network is on our block
list (S3150). You can also refer your provider to
http://mail.live.com/mail/troubleshooting.aspx#errors.
[VE1EUR01FT028.eop-EUR01.prod.protection.outlook.com] (in reply to MAIL
FROM command)
Reporting-MTA: dns; <redacted>
X-Postfix-Queue-ID: 14A41FEB66
X-Postfix-Sender: rfc822; <redacted>
Arrival-Date: Thu, 14 Mar 2019 14:07:42 +0200 (CEST)