I have stopped using Airbnb in part because of this issue. I also grew weary of the random and sometimes arduous “check-in” processes, which is different for every location as it is designed by the host. A recent one I did started like this: there is a key under the mat, that lets you in to the apartment garage, go in there and on your left there are key locks hooked on the fence, find the blue one and enter code... It’s just not a pleasant experience, especially after a long day of travel.