Loaded with plugins Vim is slower than VSCode on my machine. But I do use Vim, plain, on remote systems.
I'm also wondering when the last time you've used Vim was, because async plugin execution is now a thing, but I switched to NeoVim a while back it's fast.
My vimrc is at: https://github.com/nickjj/dotfiles/blob/master/.vimrc
At work, on OSX, VSCode has been fine though. Still, I've never run into a situation where nvim is slower. And I use a good many plugins (deoplete, ALE, ctrlp, fzf, and 5 sets of language specific plugins).